Volume 44 Number 4

Sally J (born Gill) Thompson, ET 1 June 1952 - 19 October 2024

Elizabeth A Ayello, Laurent O Chabal

For referencing Ayello EA, Chabal LO. Sally J (born Gill) Thompson, ET 1 June 1952 - 19 October 2024. WCET® Journal 2024;44(4):11.

DOI 10.33235/wcet.44.4.11

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WCET® is truly saddened to hear about the passing of Sally J Gill Thompson, a pioneer Enterostomal Therapist (ET) in the USA. Since the early days of our specialty, Sally has provided direct care and support to persons with an ostomy, including making sure they could access appropriate ostomy equipment. Sally has been our strong connection between her family - especially after the passing (25 October 1998) of her mother, Norma N Gill, founder and first WCET® President, and deepen her commitment to our association.

The special relationship that WCET® enjoyed with Sally is especially evident in her writing of some chapters in the different editions of the Festschrift book.1 Some examples follow to give you a first-hand appreciation of this wonderful woman.

Sally made a grand entrance into our world on 1 June 1952. As written in the Festschrift chapter Living with a Legend:

Finally, on May 31 1952, my water broke, two weeks early, and I was taken to the hospital to have the baby. It is hard to express the next 24 hours, since I was so ill and they did not think I would live. I was left alone except an occasional nurse coming in during the night. I was in labor 18 hours, and to top it off, Doctor Cheek who had taken care of me was out of town. I had predicted he would be, but he had been smart in having another obstetrician see me several months before in case anything did come up. The time came for delivery, and basically all I can remember was them saying the baby was born and my reply was, ‘yes, it’s a girl and she’s a redhead.’ They were shocked, for it was true. When they asked me how I knew, I told them I had ordered her. That’s my Sally.1

Such an incredible bond between mother and daughter.

Sally shared her personal stories of her ET life with her ET colleagues:

My decision to become an ET was in 1971, while I was in college. While Mom had pursued her career at Cleveland Clinic, she also saw patients in Akron hospitals in the evenings. A business developed from the needs of these patients for products, which they asked Mom to provide. People came to our house for ostomy products, evenings, weekends, holidays - you name it - whenever they needed their supplies. When I asked Mom if she could train me as an ET, she said (I’ll never forget it), “Honey, you don’t know how long I’ve waited for you to ask me that question.” Six weeks of riding to work on that Greyhound bus from Akron to Cleveland and back again darn near killed me at 19 years of age. I’ll never know how Mom did it for 21 plus years. So, I became an ET, and Mom’s patients in Akron had a hard time adjusting to a young “snot” like me. After several years, instead of being known as “Norma Gill’s daughter”, I began introducing my patients to Mom, and subsequently (in Akron, Ohio), she became known as “Sally Thompson’s Mom”! (I specified “Akron, Ohio”, because to this day, Mom is known throughout the world, yet not well known in her own hometown).1

Sally’s path to our specialty was influenced in part by observing and being aware of the surroundings in her life. She grew up in a home that housed early students of our specialty. Here’s some of her reflections, a note to all of us that younger persons are watching our actions and how it can make an important (hopefully positive) impression:

I remember the ET school formation at Cleveland Clinic for which Dr. Turnbull and Mom had the vision. Early ET trainees stayed at our home due to lack of funds and housing facilities. It was fun having ladies from other states and countries (Canada was the only “other country” in those days!) come to stay with us, even though we had to get those dreaded water goblets out that later had to be washed by my sister and me!1

We are grateful that Sally used her knowledge and expertise to help persons with an ostomy in her hometown of Akron, Ohio USA. She benefitted from her mothers lived experience with an ileostomy as well as growing up in a home that worked together to create ostomy equipment and make them available to other patients.

Sally has always been a great supporter of WCET®. In order to acknowledge all her contributions, and to thank her for all she has done, Sally was among the first recipients of the WCET® Norma N Gill President’s Award. She was so happy and honoured to receive this award, but while WCET® was honoured by her own devotion to providing care to persons with ostomies. Sally was an advocate of the need to have people with knowledge and skills care for persons with an ostomy, which she did for almost 50 years.

Early in 2024, we heard from her about the increasing symptoms she had to face and were concerned about her declining health status. It was WCET®’s turn in our relationship to provide extra support for Sally - to let her know we were there for her and to make sure she knew the high esteem in which our association held her. We had planned to meet with her in person during the June 2024 WOCN® annual conference in Cleveland but she was not able to attend nor were we able to visit her at home due to her ongoing chemotherapy and other treatments. But as always, when there are obstacles, we found a way to move things around. We were able to speak with her on Zoom to again send her our support and love. We sent her a plant to brighten her day.

Afterwards, we corresponded by email and kept in touch to get updates on her health status. We knew she would not be able to come to Glasgow, nor even do a Zoom call with us. In Glasgow during the Congress, we made a card in which all International Delegates (IDs), Committee members and Executive Board members wrote messages to Sally. We did not know at the time, that it would be our farewell to Sally, as a few days later, we received the sad news of her passing.

In order to honour her and in memory, WCET® has planted three trees, representing our tri-specialty and have contributed to the online guestbook.2 We express, once again, to all her family - her two sons, five grandchildren and a great grandchild, her longtime companion, her step siblings and friends our deepest condolences.2 Sally will be deeply missed and we will keep carrying her in our heart.

As we wrote in the WCET® commemorative message of the Festschrift book:

There can be no greater tribute to a person than to know that, through their efforts, more than one person’s life has been changed for the better.1

Thank you Sally for all you have done and may you rest in peace, dear ET, WCET® friend and colleague.


Sally J(原名Gill)Thompson,ET 1952年6月1日 - 2024年10月19日

Elizabeth A Ayello, Laurent O Chabal

DOI: 10.33235/wcet.44.4.11

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听闻美国肠造口治疗师(ET)先驱Sally J Gill Thompson逝世,WCET®为此深感悲痛。自我们专科成立之初,Sally就为造口患者提供直接护理和支持,并确保他们能够获得合适的造口设备。Sally始终是维系我们与她家庭之间那条紧密而不可或缺的纽带,这一点在她的母亲Norma N Gill(WCET®创始人兼首任主席)离世(1998年10月25日)之后尤为明显,此后,她便更加坚定地投身于协会的共同事业中。

WCET®与Sally之间的特殊联系,尤其体现在她为不同版本的《纪念册》撰写的一些章节中。1以下几段摘录将帮助您了解这位非凡女性的风采。

1952年6月1日,Sally以一种令人难忘的方式降临到这个世界。正如《纪念册》中《与传奇人物同行》一章中所述:

终于,在1952年5月31日,我的羊水破裂,比预产期早了两周,我被送往医院准备分娩。接下来的24小时难以形容,因为我病得很重,医生们甚至不确定我能活下来。那一夜,除了偶尔有护士进来查看,我几乎独自一人度过。我经历了18个小时的阵痛,更糟糕的是,照顾我的Cheek医生不在城里。我早就料到可能发生这种情况,但他很聪明,以防万一,他在数月前就让另一位产科医生关注我的情况。当分娩的时刻到来时,我记得他们说孩子出生了,而我的回答是:“是的,是个女孩,而且是红头发”。他们感到非常震惊,因为事实确实如此。当我被问到如何知道时,我回答说是我预订了她。这就是我的Sally。1

母女之间这种不可思议的情感纽带令人动容。

Sally与她的ET同事们分享了她成为一名ET护士的心路历程:

我决定成为一名ET是在1971年,当时我还在上大学。那时,母亲在克利夫兰诊所工作,晚上还在阿克伦的医院看诊。为了满足这些患者的需要,她开始提供他们所需的造口产品。无论是晚上、周末还是节假日,只要人们需要造口产品,他们就会来我们家购买。当我询问母亲是否可以培训我成为一名ET时,她对我说(我永远不会忘记):“亲爱的,你不知道我等你问我这个问题等了多久”。19岁那年,连续六周每天乘坐从阿克伦到克利夫兰再返回的灰狗巴士上下班,差点没把我累垮。我不知道母亲是怎么坚持了21年多。后来,我成了一名ET,起初,阿克伦的病人难以适应由一个年轻的“新手”来接替母亲的工作。几年后,我不再被称为“Norma Gill的女儿”,而是开始向我的病人介绍母亲,后来(在俄亥俄州阿克伦市),她被称为“Sally Thompson的母亲”!(我特别提到“俄亥俄州阿克伦市”,是因为母亲至今闻名世界,但在自己的家乡却并不为人所知)。1

Sally选择投身这一专科,在一定程度上受到了她在生活中所见所闻的影响。Sally的成长环境深受早期专科学生的影响。在她的回忆中,有这样一段话值得我们深思,提醒着年轻一代正关注着我们的行为,并从中受到重要的(希望是积极的)影响:

我还记得克利夫兰诊所ET学校的成立,那是Turnbull医生和妈妈共同的愿景。由于缺乏资金和住房设施,早期的ET学员住在我们家里。有来自其他州和国家(加拿大是当时唯一的“其他国家”!)的女士们来和我们住在一起,虽然我们不得不拿出那些很讨厌的水杯,后来还得由我和妹妹来洗,但我们还是很开心!1

我们非常感谢Sally利用她的知识和专长帮助她家乡美国俄亥俄州阿克伦的造口患者。她从母亲的回肠造口实际经历中受益匪浅,还在一个充满奉献精神的家庭中长大,全家齐心协力制造造口设备并提供给其他患者。

Sally一直是WCET®的忠实支持者。为了表彰她的所有贡献,并感谢她所做的一切,Sally成为WCET® Norma N Gill主席奖的首批获奖者之一。这个奖项让她感到无比自豪,WCET®也因她对造口患者提供护理的奉献精神而倍感荣耀。Sally一生致力于提倡由具备专业知识和技术的人士照顾造口患者,这一事业她坚持了近五十年。

2024年初,我们得知她面临症状加剧、健康恶化的挑战,对此深感关切。此刻轮到WCET®肩负起责任,为她提供额外的支持。我们希望让她深切地感受到,无论何时,我们都会坚定地陪伴在她的身旁,并向她传递协会对她的崇高敬意。我们原计划于2024年6月在克利夫兰举行的WOCN®年会期间与她会面,但由于她当时正在接受化疗和其他治疗,未能参会,我们也未能前往她的住所探望她。但和往常一样,即使遇到困难,我们也找到了办法表达关心和支持。我们通过Zoom与她通话,再次向她表达了我们的支持和关爱。我们还送给她一盆植物,愿它能为她的生活増添一抹温暖与慰藉。

之后,我们通过电子邮件保持联系,关注她的健康状况。我们知道她无法前往格拉斯哥参加大会,甚至无法与我们进行Zoom通话。因此,在格拉斯哥大会期间,我们联合所有国际代表(ID)、委员会成员和执行委员会成员一起为Sally制作了一张卡片,上面写满了祝福的话语。当时我们并未意识到,这将是与Sally的诀别,因为几天后,我们收到了她离世的噩耗。

为了纪念她,WCET®种植了三棵树,象征着我们的三大专科领域,并为在线追思簿贡献了一份心意。2我们再次向她的所有家人Å\Å\她的两个儿子、五个孙子孙女、一个曾孙、她的长期伴侣、继兄弟姐妹和朋友们致以最深切的哀悼。2我们将深深怀念Sally,并将她铭记在心。

正如我们在WCET®《纪念册》的纪念致辞中所写的那样:

对任何人而言,最值得称颂的莫过于意识到自己的努力已让不止一人的生命变得更加美好。1

感谢你,Sally,我们敬爱的ET同行与WCET®的忠实盟友,感谢你一生的努力与付出,愿你在天堂安息。


Author(s)

Elizabeth A Ayello
PhD RN CWON ETN MAWPCA FAAN
WCET® Immediate Past President

Laurent O Chabal
BSc (CBP) RN OncPall (Cert) Dip (WH) ET EAWT
WCET® President 2022–2026

References

Erwin-Toth P & Krasner DL. 2020. Enterostomal Therapy Nursing Growth & Evolution of a Nursing Specialty Worldwide. Perth: Cambridge Media

https://www.donovan funeralhome.com/obituary/Sally-Thompson #tributewall